Everyone has a private world where they can be all alone and its ridiculously clear that fear of the unknown can be the order of the day in this thoughtful moment.
A couple of times my friends hit me up and tend to express themselves, Michael, am in love, but am scared. I might get hurt; hmm I don’t know if what am feeling is true. I just feel am beginning to love too much and I don’t know if I can stand it if my love walks away.
Basically these are pertinent issues that everyone who have invested so much in love rumbles through. Anyhow it is, love is a risk, when you love, you risk being hurt,but then you must love to express yourself. Let’s say loving someone is a gift but how you go about it is what matters because you don’t expect to jump down from a storey building without you getting hurt.
So its safe to say even as love rules d world ..you must guide your heart…love is the matter of the heart. Thus if you care to love be careful not to put all you have got into it especially when you are not married.
Am not saying you should double date, far from it. However, you must balance your love life with your studies (if you are a student), work, happiness. Don’t make your relationship the source of your happiness. Instead of making your relationship your priority.
You can channel your energy to other spheres of your life, like improving yourself, working on your creative circle and also keeping your wide scope of happiness intact which could include hanging out with your friends or other things that somehow tickling your fancy so you can thrive when they eventually walk away from you and perhaps so you can live above their mercy.
Do remember to guide your heart; don’t just give in to everyone that says ‘I love you.’ Your happiness is important.
I HOPE IT HELPS SOMEONE OUT THERE.
FROM YOUR FAMOUS HOMIE
AKA MC JAY.